When You Were
Thursday, June 30th, 2011When You Were
When you were 13 and new to puberty?
Did you worry that masturbating in the bathroom or in the bathtub or shower might somehow make your mom or sister pregnant? (No, it can't, in case you're 13 and worried about that.) That seems to be a common worry here lately. I wonder why.
Clarification: a common worry of 13 year olds in Mens Health -- not in my life. I'm an adult, never once had such thoughts myself.
Nopers. I was more worried they might slip on it in the shower, or even find it underfoot, so I was very careful to wash it down the drain.. usually with my foot!
When did you first realize that you were gay?
Believe it or not, when I was five or so, I use to have dreams that I was naked with other men. We did not do anything sexually, as I was too young to know what sex was. This would usually end with me waking up with a dry orgasm. I never made much of these dreams.
I was not sexually molested nor did I have access to any homosexual materials. By the time I was 12, I realized that I had a sexual attraction to men. I did not come out until I was 19.
Anyone else have similar experiences?
BTW...I believe the gay thing starts at conception.
I can't believe that "supposed" str8 people are trying to answer my question. And they say gays are weird.
I was probably about 5 or 6 when homosexual hints started showing up for me. I recall that my dead beat father had come home one day from work and I had put on my mother's apron and had her vacuum cleaner, imitating her; my father gave me hell for that, telling me that wasn't what a little boy was supposed to do. When I was a little older, maybe at 8 or 9, I can recall enjoying looking at topless guys and drawing pictures of them. It wasn't until puberty that it really began to sink in, as I was aroused by men. I denied that for a good long while, and I never had any friends that would even remotely understand or accept it if I had accepted it then, and it wasn't until last month that I did come out for the first time to one of my good friends, me being 21. This friend of mine was really the first person I've ever met who would be really truly accepting of it, and she is an awesome person and set me up with a gay fellow she knew to talk about my feelings and what not, stuff she said he was more capable of discussing than she was.
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